“Addiction, at its worst, is akin to having Stockholm Syndrome. You’re like a hostage who has developed an irrational affection for your captor. They can abuse you, torture you, even threaten to kill you, and you’ll remain inexplicably and disturbingly loyal.” |
The stigma of addiction and the fear of judgement stops families from seeking help. I have heard from partners, parents, grandparents, children, siblings and friends how difficult it is to share the turmoil of having an addicted loved one. Not everyone understands the delicate balance required to walk the tight rope of substance use disorder. Family members and friends are left feeling isolated and alone, afraid to share or ask for advise.
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I know from experience how hard it is to keep the outside appearances perfect, when you are dying inside. You don't have to walk through this alone anymore. Beginning with small changes and focusing on yourself just a bit can make all the difference in the world. By taking baby steps, I was able to change my relationships with many of the addicted people in my life. I found relief and so did they.
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The first time I met Jodi, she told me to just breathe! I found my support and lifeline. Not only is Jodi an amazing counsellor, but she also has a gift of holding the space. She made it safe to voice and work through the shame and guilt, as well as the stigma and fear I had around drug addiction. Her compassion and understanding of addiction helped me begin to face it, while trusting my own instincts. Today I notice my own reactions and feelings, while finding beneficial ways for me to work through my issues, rather than ignoring or denying them.
Thanks to Jodi, rather than putting my life on hold, and constantly worrying about my daughter, I am reminded to find ways to support and take care of myself. The more I take care of me, the better I can be for me and those around me.
~RA, Maple Ridge
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